Friday, 20 July 2012

Raped Every day for nine months


Raped every day for nine months

Gang raped by seven men.

 My name is Mado Nzigire, 33years old, from Bukavu district from Democratic Republic of Congo, one evening I was busy preparing supper for my family when armed men stormed my compound. They collected all my family members together, and then they started raping me one by one until the seventh rebel got his turn. Can you imagine I was raped in the presence of my children and mother in law, and when my husband tried to stop them, he was killed instantly? I passed out and only to wake up in the middle of nowhere surrounded by bush. The rebels had taken me to be their wife. They fought amongst themselves for me, and in the end the leader decided to have me. I would cook food for them, clean around and sometimes fetch water at gun point. To make it worse I was raped every day for nine months by the rebel leader. My private parts got torn and now I cannot manage to hold waste. Fortunately one day I was allowed to fetch water from the well on my own and there was an exchanged of bullets between the government and the rebel, so I used that opportunity to escape. I went to the hospital where I was treated. Now I work as a porter by carrying people’s lugage and sometimes work as house help. I have to look after my family and mother in law. Life is not easy because I have recto-vaginal fistula, a very dangerous health problem with repeated pelvic infections and the memories of those horrible days still linger in my mind.


Fortune to rape a virgin

My name is Yoles Kambele, 31 years from Bundibugyo. I was abducted by Allied Democratic Forces rebels at the age of 13 and I was still a virgin the rebels tattooed all virgins in the bush whom they believed it was a source of fortune to have sex with them. I was gang raped by 9 men, one I tried to refuse to have sex with the men then I was heavily beaten bushed in a trunk of a tree I still feel some of scares.  Unfortunately I became pregnant I was operated by using the razor blade and a knife during labor, and I was healed by going in cold water every early morning and giving me herbs. But today I have heard complications during every delivery. This person who operated me, I could not establish whether he was a medical personnel qualified or not because everybody claimed to be expert especially when it came to crisis and there was need to help somebody. 

Forced to eat flesh fresh.
My name is Amina 25 years old. I was abducted by Allied Democratic Forces rebels when they attacked my village in Ndughuthu Sub County in Bundibugyo. I was abducted together with my sister and cousin. We walked for a very long period of time, when my sister could not take it anymore; she complained and begged that we get some rest. The rebel leader commanded his men to cut her body into pieces and this was then mixed with goat meat. I was forced to eat my sister’s flesh; I was the first to be given the piece of her flesh to eat, I had to eat it or else I would lose my life. Sometime later my cousin could not take it anymore, she was also killed and then her private parts were cut off and they forced me to eat them too fresh. I was threatened, that in case I refused I would be the next on the row, I simply ate.  It was too devastating, up to now I cannot forget the trauma I went through. Those were the worst days of my life, seeing my family lose their lives and at the same time being forced to eat their flesh fresh. I managed to escape and returned home. Even though I have got counseling from women in Isis WICCE, the memories are still fresh in my mind.
Those are some of the testimonies given by women from war affected areas from different parts of the world, in the ongoing Isis-WICCE leadership training for peace and security taking at Esella country hotel in Najjera for a period of two weeks.
Africa is a witness to severe civil and political conflict. These conflicts among other political, economic and social problems have led to increased instances of complex forms of Violence Against Women (VAW) including Sexual and Gender Based Violence (SGBV).
Sexual violence against women shatters victims’ relationships with their families and society.
Violence and abuse in armed and post conflict settings is rooted in gender inequalities, power dynamics, oppression and lack of privilege for women. The humiliation that women go through results in loss of pride, loss of voice and self-worth, indignity, fear, depression, trauma and bitterness.
Koffi Annan, (1999) notes that violence against women is the most shameful human rights violation and it is perhaps the most pervasive. It knows no boundaries of geography, culture or wealth. As long as it continues, we cannot claim to be making real progress towards equality, development and peace. Yet further still, patriarchy and masculinities are used to intimidate those trying t address indignity and injustices.
Consequently women are forced to be silent, their presence is stigmatized and their rights as a productive economic force collapse.
Despite the recent adoption of the UN resolution 1820 (2008) which calls for the cessation of war related sexual violence against civilians in conflict zones, Africa continues to see some of the worst cases of war related sexual violence including the mass sexual abuse of entire rural communities particularly in the Great Lakes region. In addition to calling for a complete halt to this abuse, there is a need for the systematic study of the reproductive, surgical and psychological effects of war related sexual violence in the African socio-cultural setting.
Long term health consequences of war related sexual violence include reproductive health problems, surgical problems and psychological health problems in the survivors. Reproductive health problems have been reported to include: pain in both external and internal genitalia; menstrual disturbances; urination and defecation problems; sexual problems such as sexual dysfunction; rectal and vaginal fistulae and traumatic genital injury; urinary tract infections; STDs including pelvic inflammatory disease, HIV/AIDS; disturbance of reproduction including infertility; and precancerous and/or cancerous cervical tumours. Destruction of breast tissue may result in necrosis of the papillae so that a mother cannot breastfeed her infant, which is often the only available source of nutrition for babies in situations of war.

Psychological torture
According to the international Health and Human Right research article about War related sexual violence and it's medical and psychological consequences as seen in Kitgum, Northern Uganda has suffered chronic warfare for the last 20 years, with a conflict waged between the central government army (the Uganda Peoples Defence Forces; UPDF) and a vicious rebel group, the Lord's Resistance Army. This conflict has led to the mass traumatisation of the population including the abuse of human rights, and the forced displacement of over 2 million people (80% of the population in the region) into internally displaced persons camps.

Since 2006, the Sudan sponsored peace talks between the Uganda government and the Lord's Resistance Army have brought relative peace to the region with people gradually returning to their homes; as a result both government and the international community have begun focusing on the rehabilitation and resettlement of the war survivors. However often such rehabilitation and resettlement programs fail to address the mental health and reproductive health needs of war survivors; when these needs are addressed it is done in a very superficial manner.

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